Friday, October 29, 2021

The Week Before

Monday: 22km for Grace and Mom for x-rays for chiropractor
Tuesday: 2km for market trip for Aiden and Mom, 10km for Grace and Mom to see chiropractor
Wednesday: 8km for Mom for physio
Thursday: 22km for Jasmin and Mom for Orthodontics' appointment for Jasmin, another 8km for Mom to get x-rays for chiropractor because of a misunderstanding
Friday: none!
Saturday: Grace, Jasmin, and Mom out (but not by bike)
Sunday: 10km for Grace and Mom to the chiropractor one last time.

84km of biking this week for Mom. Not bad - almost pre-pandemic levels 😏. It stands out now though, as a highly unusual week of outings. And all the more so as Monday we are leaving for a holiday... Squeezing in trip planning, packing, arranging plant and pet care, everything else that goes with a holiday away, AND enough schoolwork done that we don't get behind has been a little intense. It's being quite the week! It will make the holiday all the more sweet...

Friday, October 22, 2021

Some Poetry - from Jasmin this time

 I Looked and I Saw

I looked and I saw

A man

With healing hands —

Hands of a King


I looked and I saw

A son

With love for me —

Love that adopts


I looked and I saw

A lion

With roaring call—

Calling back all


I looked and I saw

A rabbi

With humble words —

Humble yet strong


I looked and I saw

A criminal

With false charges—

Charged and condemned 


And I looked and I saw

A lamb

With splattered coat —

Coat crimson red


And I looked and I saw

A tomb

With broken body —

Body laid dead


But then I looked and then I saw

A stone

With empty grave —

He rose again


So I looked and I spoke

A tale

With redemption —

Redemption for all

Dark, Light

Dark

Dark wails echo

Dark wails echo down halls

Dark wails echo down halls, haunting me

Dark wails echo down halls, haunting me, taunting me

Dark wails echo down halls, haunting me, taunting me — but remember

Dark wails echo down halls, haunting me, taunting me — but remember the light

Wails echo down halls, haunting me, taunting me — but remember the light

Down halls, haunting me, taunting me — but remember the light

Haunting me, taunting me — but remember the light

Taunting me — but remember the light

But remember the light

The light

Light

FirstHope

A tender white flower opens,

Glassy petals unfurling

Peeking through drifts of black,

And so First Hope is growing


To whom do I owe?

For whom do I seek?

My heart flickers, flickers,

My feet patter, patter,

But to where or for what

I do not know.


To whom do I yearn?

For what do I pine?

My voice sweeter, sweeter,

My thirst bitter, bitter,

But for what that can quench it

I do not know.


To whom do I fight?

For what do I long?

My words sharper, sharper

My temper looser, looser

But what kind words can soothe

I do not know.


To whom am I for?

For what am I worth?

My soul deeper, deeper

My will weaker, weaker

But to Him whom I am promised

I do not know.


A small pearl in the black

Tenderly lifted up

Cradled in worn palms

A whisper, “You are found.”

5 "when you..."'s from this week


When you assign work and then leave...😄 but not bad when 2 months ago they knew no French
 

When you don't want to take no for the answer...
you end up spending a lot of time and money on health care. This week Grace and Mom have been to a chiropractor, Mom to a physiotherapist, Jasmin and Grace to a dentist. These took up roughly 6 hours our our time this week, and unfortunately also broke up our days oddly so it felt like it took much more time than that. But, hopefully we are now on track for eliminating some troubling hip pain for Grace, discovering better habits/routines/movement for Mom to avoid further spine degeneration, and another year of healthy teeth. It seems like a sudden unusual load of health related outings, but the alternative of learning to live with things as is isn't an acceptable option. And now is a good time as healthcare here is no linger overrun with Covid cases, reliable, and not too expensive. Next on the list is some x-rays for Grace to aid the chiropractor during our next visit, and an expedition to the nearest vaccination center (which isn't that close). 

When you confidently try out a new hiking trail with no guide...
you switch to simply trying to find a trail that doesn't dwindle to nothing, you head for the waterfall sound (because who doesn't like waterfalls?), and you end up on the wrong side of the fence at a water treatment/catchment place.


Thankfully the gate was only wired shut not padlocked so we didn't have to climb the fence or fight our way back through the jungle.

When you book a flight after nearly two years of pandemic...
you have to be willing to navigate the ever changing rules on health procedures and an overburdened call center for when a flight is summarily canceled. Since we booked our flights a week ago, the Covid mitigation rules have changed for the airline, public transport to the airport, and for our destination at least once each, and there is little certainty over what some of the rules mean. Also, we received an email yesterday informing us our flight home had been canceled for "operational reasons" and if we wanted to do anything other than swallow the loss and rearrange different transport, we had to "talk to" the airline's chatbot. That was an exercise in patience!
 
After entering our details carefully three times, Mom was informed "she" couldn't help me and I'd have to wait in line for a live person chat. No problem, as that would be preferred anyhow. Except that there were 284 people waiting in line ahead of Mom... and the chatbot politely informed Mom she had to keep watch because there is no advanced warning that it is your turn. Over an hour later (but with only 150 people ahead in line), without warning, chatbot informs Mom what the live chat opening hours are and gives options to send an email about the request. As this was slap-dab in the middle of the stated opening hours, this was rather ambiguous if Mom was still in line or not. With some hesitation, she decides to send the email. After being asked again for our account and flight details  - twice (couldn't it remember?) -along comes more ambiguous instructions and questions. Again account and flight info has to be painstakingly entered. And then at the end of the sequence.... did anything happen? There is no indication at all if it worked or not, so Mom scraps that session and tries again. But still chatbot cannot verify our account or flight and can't help. A few more exasperated yet tenacious tries later, the chatbot did work as it was supposed to and it was a fairly painless process of rebooking. Lessons to apply elsewhere: one person's clarity is not everyone's - there were so many ambiguous choices, questions, instructions! - and don't try an automated system directly after a flight cancellation - a whole plane load of people are doing the same thing. And two bonuses: we now have a 1 day longer holiday, and after having entered our booking details over 6 times, we now have them memorized...

When you book a holiday in November...
you have to get ahead in work so as to not come home and have to catch up. And that calls for some pretty heavy work days for everyone! Dad is hardly to be seen except at supper time, and even then his mind is still more than half on the work projects he's trying to finish before we go. The girls are seemingly constantly at their computers typing away at some school project or paper. Aiden is not getting off to play until 3pm most days. And Mom is juggling the faster flow of work to be evaluated, math to be corrected, to do lists to be reviewed. What with the uptick in outings for healthcare this week and the extra holiday planning and preparation tasks, it's been rather a challenge to keep up and manage to run the household too.

Thursday, October 14, 2021

A Blep Week - with Thanksgiving

Blep [blˈɛp] the perfect word for this week. It normally means when an animal's tongue sticks out of their mouth when their mouth is closed. But in our house, it has come to be first an exclamation of "I've really had enough of this/ I'm tired/ Ugh!" And this week has been full of that sentiment - enough so Jasmin began personifying blep in sketches on her math pages...

Saturday Jasmin and Mom left at 11:20am for what was supposed to be a relatively quick errand. Because it was expected to be quick, they took no water, snacks, or things to do. Five hours later they returned. Not how anyone wants to spend Saturday!  But the errand is done and we only have to repeat the process once more. I'm thinking we'll avoid Saturdays next time...

1. We were successful despite crazy wait times and convoluted processes.
2. Mom and Jasmin were together so had someone to talk to and could problem solve together.

Monday's MRI results were highly unsatisfactory. Not for being undefined or inconclusive, but rather because the results were "You have somewhat advanced degenerative disk disease with some nerve impingement (as in, this part of your spine looks like you're 60+). It is irreversible and there isn't anything we can do about it until the pain is unmanageable." And all the suggestions given for improving the situation and putting off seemingly inevitable pain I'm already doing. So good for me (for already doing all the right things) and not good for me (that there isn't something more concrete I could do to slow down the inevitable). Blep. And yet, thanksgiving:

3. Clear results.
4. I'm not in pain despite evidence of nerve impingement.
5. Treatment will not infringe on our upcoming holiday.
6. I've been doing the right things.

Tuesday I ended up going again to the hospital to decipher why the CD of my MRI appeared blank at home. Blep. Another trip out, wasting the better part of an afternoon. But, I was taken seriously and courteously helped to figure out the problem. Another type of CD was burned for me free of charge when it was predicted my DVD player couldn't read the correct format. So I was successful.

7. Ease of travel, despite pandemic rules and no car of our own.
8. I didn't have to push for help, but was willingly helped to find the problem and a workable solution even though it was my hardware that was the problem.
9. Success.

Wednesday was math wrangling. Both Jasmin and Aiden are part of a pilot project for a revamped math curriculum. It has been a rocky start as it is VERY different than what we know and love. After a page full of newly minted cute blep sketches and more confusion than understanding yet again, we came to the conclusion Wednesday that the revamped material not worth the continued fight for Jasmin. Blep. 

10. Frustration came out in creative sketching not bad attitude.
11. We had a math curriculum in reserve for just this scenario.
12. Jasmin's personified bleps are cute! She even animated one

Thursday was just a grey day inside and out. Blep.

13. We have a holiday to look forward to.
14. News that we are now allowed to have visitors so we can resume in-person music lessons after our holiday.