Monday, December 25, 2023

A Few More Christmas Week Things!

 

Advent Puzzle Complete!

Grace and Jasmin went to a friend's party!

The girls (re)taught Aiden how to skate


And...

Lots of lovely sleep-ins

Lots of yummy remember-Asia meals: mee goreng, char koey teow, moo palao, teh tarik, dim sum...

A library hour (or 2)

A swim afternoon

A night walk to see neighbourhood lights

A few hours of shared computer games

An evening of popcorn and movie - our yearly treat!

And... us girls made this "video" pre-release of some of Grace's songs:

Happy Christmas!



Tuesday, December 19, 2023

Advent Week Begun!

Grace in on break!
It took her a few all-nighters
but she's done
And now we can have fun -
When she's caught up on sleep!

Our first day we slept in (of course)
Ate pad thai and baote
At the request of kids missing Asian food
(we'll eat other favorites all this week)

Played board games 
until Mom's headache interfered too much
Played computer games
Grace got in some practice driving 
While Aiden had his last volleyball session

Mom got her latest crochet project done:
Rather unsure why it is so grey in the photo 
as it's comfortingly yellow and white IRL

She also finished her dragon collage!

A rather poor representation of a love-gift from God:
A message of belonging and gifting
Despite how others see 

And we finished the day
With a time of family meditation
Advent longing and living hope
Our God will surely come!

Tuesday, December 12, 2023

The Get Everything Done Week

 This week and last week are definitely the "get everything done" weeks. Starting on the 17th, Grace has 4 precious weeks of break from her university and we want to make the most of it! So we're trying to clear the decks to focus on one another and the many Christmas activities we've written on our bucket list. It is a bit of a struggle since Jasmin has her book editing to do this month, Aiden and Mom have school work still to finish, both girls are slogging away at the online instructional portion of their Driver's Ed program, Dad is juggling lots of Zoom meetings and website creation, and Grace is now deep into her final projects and such for the semester. Hopefully we are successful and next week can be the restful fun that we dream of. Since for the last 5 years Christmas traditions and celebrations have centered around a big campfire feast on the beach, we're not just sliding into our usual, but having to come up with "new" ones.

Like most lists, there are way too many ideas to fit comfortably in a week, so curating the list and planning is also on mom's plate for this "get it done" week.

Our foster dog is feeling very comfortable and at home now. We've had her for over 3 months as she recovers from hip dysplasia surgery. This is where we find her when we don't let her out into the back yard because she tends to bark at every noise she hears from the neighboring yards. So she sits here and watches the squirrels run along the fences instead. :) We are probably saying goodbye to her soon, as she will be in the shelter while we visit Edmonton, and so she might get adopted while we are gone.

Imma has graciously dressed the girls for winter! We had very few suitable sweaters for these grown up girls but now they are warm in style. 

We've had a few Christmassy things happen already. The girls went to a Christian ballet production by an old friend. We tried out the studio's worship evening that same weekend. It was quite interesting and different. Rather than just music with space and permission to dance, it was a guided experience of using gesture and dance to pray, praise, and worship our God. It happens once a month, so we may try again - though it does clash a little with other scheduled things and is quite far.

Grace and Mom headed to Ellel for another afternoon of ministry. Grace with a prayer team, and Mom in the creativity room. Even the 2.5 hours was not enough for Mom to finish her collage, but as far as it is, it looks good and portrays the meaning she desired. Hopefully there will be some time in the next week for her to finish it (and maybe post it?).

We actually had a snow day for Aiden's co-op last Monday! So he had an "extra" day this week - throwing out our carefully planned schedule for finishing school work. He's working away with a will to get finished on time though.

Let's get it done so we can rest and celebrate!


Saturday, December 02, 2023

Winter is finally nicely here!

 We've had some decently cold days, but this morning we woke to the white world of a long gentle snow. It made the dog walk this morning extra delightful - and reminded mom she'd really better get some decent boots soon. The ones she has are from pre-marriage days and are no longer warm and don't have any support inside for her still bothersome plantar fasciitis. Of course, Aiden talks of snowmen and sledding, but the likelihood of this snow still being around tomorrow is pretty slim as the temperature creeps upward. Now we sit in the in-between of do we put our bikes away for the winter or not? Do we get out the proper winter coats or not?

It also feels like winter because we've begun our Advent - this year a puzzle. Each day we complete a portion of the puzzle so by Christmas we'll have a completed 1000 piece picture of a stained glass nativity. So far, so good. Instead of a missing piece we have a duplicate! Hopefully someone's box out there is not missing it!

Also wintery and thinking about Christmas: Mom and the kids have been asked to help prepare the children's addition to the Christmas Eve service at church. We just spent the morning making and practicing a ribbon dance in our livingroom and tomorrow we'll see how well it can be passed on the the children... hopefully not too difficult and chaos causing.


Grace and Jasmin are trying to squeeze in as much driving practice as possible before there is snow on the ground for the winter, but what with both them and mom having course work to do and other extras that take our time, it is difficult! Our goal is to have at least one of them driving by February, so we'll have to get better at that.

Mom started an end of semester list of accomplishments for Aiden to see how far he'd come so far in his school. This new way of school can often feel like it just goes on forever and it is difficult to sense the progress. Both mom and Aiden were quite flabbergasted to see that he's read nearly 20 books since September! 

Thursday, November 23, 2023

Not much and a Rare Date


Not much is actually a lot
Beautiful Fall/Winter sunrises
In the woods with the dog
A great time for Bible memory review

Not much is actually a lot
Three kids and me working away
At schoolwork that can feel like play
Drawing, writing, building, thinking

Not much is actually a lot
Welcome interruptions from friends
Morning lane swims, conversations, games
All day visits and minute long chats

Not much is actually a lot
Warm winter meals
Shopping for winter boots
Excitement over the small first snows

Not much is actually a lot
Love gifts of a heavenly Father
Lavished with abundance
In this sin cracked world



Another kind of love gift
A rare date evening
Driving through the lights

Themed on Christmas songs 
A picture in lights for each 12 gifts
An Eiffel tower to say French hen


A section of the best
Camels that seem to walk
shepherds on the go too





A lovely lot of lights
For a beautiful quiet evening drive
And then a "pit stop"
 For photos, food, and fire!

















 

Sunday, November 05, 2023

Busy Normal

Back from Halifax we slid into sick
Coughs and sniffles
Honey lemon ginger tea and tissues.

And unfortunately wheezy gasps as well
Dad besieged with cold and asthma
And even now belabored breathing.

Mom joining the family in study
Reading, thinking, writing
Assignments and deadlines for everyone

Surprise, surprise!
Driver's Ed called Jasmin for driving practice
She's doing really well
But why her and not Grace yet?

Aiden thoroughly enjoying co-op
Mostly for a day with friends
But also learning through hands-on experiments.

Mom up and out 2 mornings a week
Swimming with a new friend
Coming home thoroughly tired and satisfied.

Morning walks in the dark
Fall carpet of bright leaves illuminating the woods
In the faint light of dawn.

Weather confused, warm and cold
Snow has already arrived and left
And spring seeds confused have begun to sprout

A week of hosting and being hosted
Old friends and new
Sharing food and sharing lives.

Travel planning, ticket searching
Spurred on by Halloween sales
Edmonton at Christmas, Thailand in February

Yet quite content and relieved
November and December to be at home
Room for a busy normal:

Driving practice, schoolwork, hosting and being hosted,
 Enjoying the different weather,
Swimming, co-op, dog walks,
Consulting, counseling, loving others,
Dreaming about what extra event might be coming next.


Tuesday, October 17, 2023

Halifax Thanksgiving


The pictures and events tumble through the mind
Brilliantly clear and fuzzy-edged both together
Ten busy lovely days with not-so-local family.

A 7 hour progressive Thanksgiving dinner
Where people, conversations, and connections
Featured stronger than the scrumptious food.

Zoom connecting those who couldn't be there
Kahoot reminding us of obscure facts of family history
40 years in Canada this year!

And then reconnections with friends leading to
An unexpected "dry-run" of an innovative sermon delivery
A delightful jam session after church that Grace and Aiden joined
A Valley trip to meet IRL an online friend - and her very big dogs!


Many, many times of talk with copious cups of tea
And cheesecake, or hot chocolate, or crumbly cookies
Sitting in living rooms, churches, or cars
Catching up with each other.

Aiden learning multiple trampoline tricks
In a marathon session with a new friend one day 
It must have been at least 4 hours straight!
But then, that visit lasted at least 12...

The girls embarking on an adventure of adulting
Flying home early for school that doesn't believe in holidays
Navigating the city bus system to attend a friend's birthday party
No small feat with no phone data, multiple transfers, and everything unfamiliar!

And eventually, reluctantly
We had to leave to come home
And try to jump back into life in Ottawa on the run

Aiden to co-op school day the very next morning
Foster dog picked up, groceries bought
Correspondence restarted, stalled plans set in motion again

Home here, home there
An unsettling feeling we're well acquainted with
But when the distance is drivable instead of needing to be flown

Somehow the torn feelings 
Of wanting to be here, wanting to be there
Are all the stronger

 

Thursday, September 28, 2023

Surprise!

 Not quite unexpectedly, we had guests for the weekend. One of those delightful, longed for, but not often happening reconnection of friends made in one location showing up in another. We got to spend the weekend with friends we'd made in Penang!

They were wonderfully easy guests, fitting right into our household and weekend plans. So much so, we didn't even think to take pictures very much...

Saturday was loud board games and another surprise of a campfire evening hosted by a couple in our church. 

Sunday a restful morning followed by afternoon church and an evening picnic supper by the river. 

Monday we all took as a work day, as life doesn't quit when you're traveling or friends visit. But it ended with Chocolat Favori chocolate dipped ice creams (the best ever anywhere!) and a visit to a homeschool moms' evening. 

Tuesday we spent the day at the Science and Tech Museum, breaking for a sumptuous lunch of poutine and shawarma - yes, from the same place! - before saying goodbye just before supper.


An all too short a visit, and yet just right somehow. Thank you God for such a gift!


Monday, September 18, 2023

Church Camp

 We joined our new church for their annual church camp this weekend. The emphasis was on unplugging and taking good rest while enjoying one another. It certainly was an unplugged weekend, with only officially designated photographers, and we certainly enjoyed being together, but restful? Maybe only in the sense that we rested from our usual works and did different things.

There were no sleeping in mornings with 50 or so of the attendees being kids under 13 (most under 8!) and breakfasts at 8:30 after morning shared devotions. But neither were there any super late nights for the same reasons as we all stayed in the same lodge building.

Saturday morning was a hilarious blast of adults and kids alike playing games like octopus and blob tag, along with a slightly more serious game of soccer baseball. The afternoon was swimming (for the brave few in cold water!) and boating before settling into a rhythm of volleyball and basketball that, without scorekeeping, went on for hours!

We hardly saw Aiden except for meals as he roamed the grounds with the kids, dabbling in whatever games spontaneously began. Grace, Jasmin, and Mom fit in a good outdoor singsong time with Jasmin playing her violin, as well as crashing the worship team practices - that landed Grace a place on the team for the Sunday service!

Saturday evening we had the mandatory camp experience of campfire and s'mores, of course. We mostly enjoyed the heat, having never warmed up properly from our cold swim, and being still full from so many great meals. And then, the stars! It was a wonderfully clear night so we were able to see the Milky Way and identify a good handful of constellations.

Sunday's service included a wonderfully celebrated baptism as well, which felt like a very fitting capstone to our weekend.

We came home Sunday afternoon, (without injuries, mosquito bites, or sun burn somehow) all thoroughly tired, quite sore from the unusual amount and forms of exercise, fully content with the time spent away with our new church family.

Saturday, September 09, 2023

September's Here

 September's here but not Fall weather!

It's like August and September switched - 

August was cool and trees started to turn

September started hot: middle of summer heat wave hot.


September's here, with a new dog

Honey got called in for her second hip surgery.

New dog Max, is a beautiful saluki mix.

Rather nervous of others 

But a calm dog splat in the heat

So wilted not even a frozen treat Kong is worth getting up for.


September's here but in the heat

Sunday we decided on a picnic by the river

Aiden, Mom, and Dad went wading/swimming even!

(hence no pictures)

Jasmin was kept occupied chasing down Max

Who doesn't mix with others very well

She sacrificed her feet to the rocks to intervene

And came home with bruising and a deep ankle gouge.

Still, we'd say, "let's do it again before it gets cold!"


September's here and so is the start of school - for Aiden

The girls simply continue their current semesters' work.

Week one is done for Aiden

A LOT of reading proscribed, but interesting and varied

A year we can look forward to!

Friday, August 25, 2023

A Remarkable that Ought Not to be Forgotten (but was when last post was written 😕)

 Jasmin sent her book manuscript for a review by Friesen Press - a first tentative step towards getting it published. We were all super excited by the positive response she got! Here are a few snippets of the very thoughtful, thorough review:

    "Honestly, what impressed me probably the most was how effectively you managed to 
consistently maintain what was a very complex narrative perspective throughout. Tackling this 
story, most young writers (and many old ones like me if I’m being honest) likely would have just 
told it from a first-person perspective. In the story, our entire world is being seen through 
Fralith’s eyes, and yet he needs to interact with characters in our world who speak English, 
which he doesn’t understand. Establishing the proper balance between his confusion and reader understanding, as well as navigating the switches between the two, showcased incredibly strong writing instincts that I have no doubt will serve you very well in the future. As will the creativity and imagination that is so blatant in your writing. "

"Overall, I have to commend you on what you have created with A Fallen Homekin, which 
showcased literary instincts, imagination, and creativity that any writer would be lucky to have 
at any stage of their careers. The fact that you have developed them to this extent so early in 
your journey speaks very well for your potential future in the industry."

"Lastly, I found that the story’s beginning was tremendously powerful, capturing my attention  almost instantly, and within the first few pages, I found all my trepidations [of having to review a young writer] falling away, leaving  me simply excited to settle in and experience whatever was to come."

And here is a taste of the beginning. Hopefully in the not too distant future, you can be reading the whole thing in book form!

The first thing he saw was the moon. It was huge, like an unblinking eye. And it was foreign.
Fralith shot to his feet with a cry, only to stagger into a tree. A gasp escaped him as the world lurched and spun, the rough bark of the tree scraping his fingers.
He sucked in a breath, but not enough air would come. It was as if the very air was too thin, too stretched apart. Gasping and choking, he strove to meet his body’s demands, his heart racing like a rabbit running from a fox. It slammed against his ribs, little claws scrabbling at his chest.
Not enough! He couldn’t get enough! But he needed it. He needed to breathe. His mouth flopped agape, working open and closed in a soundless scream. The world tipped, and he crashed to his hands and knees, horrible sucking sounds coming from his throat.
Time whisked by like a swift river as he focused all he had to the next great gulp. Inhale. Exhale. Inhale. Exhale. Gradually, the rapid thuds of his heart slowed, and air flowed in and out easily.
Fralith blinked hard to clear the blackness in his vision and sat up, wiping his mouth, his head full of fizzles and sparks. Dull pain burned across his face, pounding a rhythm into his cheekbone, making it hard for him to focus his eyes. He rubbed at them and peered around.
Deep shadows clung thickly to the ground, blurring the edges of everything so it looked like one blobby mess. He squinted up through the leaves at the sky. It was a dirty gray, the haze of coming dawn touching its edges. The moon watched him from its perch, seeming farther away than it should be. Emptier. Lonelier.
Ice shivered down his back, and he swallowed, the paws of his heart starting to thud rapidly against his ribs. His senses sharpened, and sound rushed into his ears. Foreign sounds. Sounds not from forest creatures. They filtered through the foliage, filling his head with shrill sand-eating bird calls, monstrous guttural grumbles, head-splitting screeches, and a plethora of unidentifiable noises.
This wasn’t—this wasn’t—this wasn’t home. Home. A lighting bolt struck his chest, drawing a gasp from his lips. He twisted toward the trees, wide eyes raking the dim forest floor. Where was it? Had he closed it? It had to be here; it had to! He scrambled forward, tearing his hands through the grass. The HomeKins had to be here. They had to because—
A thundering roar pierced the murmurs of the strange place, shattering any semblance of calm. A white flash slammed into his senses, and he was running. Dashing. Shooting past dark blurs with splashes of light, straining with all his might to get away. Again. He was running away again. But this time, he wasn’t running away from—from—.
Golden flames flickered across his eyes, illuminating his enraged scowl. “How could you?” the boy yelled, arm lifting the torch, hands shifting, and eyes blazing. Then the torch was flying. Flames sparking, spinning, twisting toward him, the heat roaring, light consuming. His foot landed on rock, jarring his bones and clicking his teeth together. Light exploded around him, and he threw his arm over his eyes, crying out. It shouldn’t be like this! It should be night! Dark!
Slowly, the intensity of the light lessened, and he lowered his arm, blinking. The forest was gone. No more trees. No more grass. No more comforting night shadows. He swallowed, intestines twisting. In its place were houses. Not SecondHomish wood or stone houses, but houses made out of… he didn’t know what. In front of the houses were patches of grass and, beside that, strips of black that led to a wider strip of black with white strips along the middle.
Strange beasts sat on the smaller black strips in front of almost identical-looking houses. Tall, smooth trees stood on the small, hard path he was on, their tops producing blinding, unnatural light. 
All the air left his lungs in a tumbling whoosh, taking his strength with it. He sank to the ground, world blurring and ears ringing.
Wherever this was, it was not SecondHome.

Monday, August 21, 2023

Finally a Few Remarkables

Saturday was our church's summer picnic - having been weather delayed...
    Despite the aim for a day of better weather, it was actually a rather chilly windy day.
        Surprisingly, the park was pretty full of groups gathering anyway, so our group huddle was not alone by far.
            We ate well, talked lots, and the kids played on the playground - Aiden getting introduced to a roundabout...

... and on the way home, between errand stops, he threw up in the car, having never recovered his equilibrium! Unfortunately he was sitting in the middle, so it was quite the side of the road cleanup operation... and we still rode the rest of the way home with all the windows down, trying not to breathe :} And the rest of the day was spent cleaning the car, a sometime-before-our-October-road trip task suddenly being an urgent need! Aiden recovered quickly after emptying his stomach; the car took longer, but we think we managed to get rid of the smell.

For a few days Dad listened-ignored a loud cricket sounding remarkably close in his office despite his closed windows. Mom remarked it sounded like it was indoors, but she couldn't place the sound well enough to start a hunt for it. But last night, just sitting down to talk with Dad in his office, she heard clearly where it was coming from and found it. A little black field cricket nestled in the black shorts waiting to be mended!


Saturday, July 29, 2023

Tumbling through life

 We switched foster dogs this week. Jasmin was finding Willow a bit too much work to keep abreast of while working on her university courses. And Honey, an older German shepherd, has been waiting for a foster placement for months and really needed a place. We couldn't take her before because she was slated for hip dysplasia surgery and there are too many stairs in our house. But now she is post-surgery and limber enough to get herself up and down stairs, so we have her with us until she is healed enough for her second surgery. The difference is incredible! Willow scarfed down her food and spent the rest of the time seeking and stealing food. Honey turns her nose up at all food offerings until she is good and ready. Willow wagged all of herself at any sign of attention. Honey gives us a lazy wave of her tail. Willow wasn't happy unless her walks were long and exciting. Honey is happy with a slow jaunt around the block. But I think for the most part we're all happy with the new experience.

On Willow's last walk with us, the kids came home with a fledgling bird they had fished out of the river! It sat in a box on our kitchen shelf overnight and then in the morning flutter-flopped to the floor. Aiden picked it up and held it out the door and it flew off. Way better an ending than trying to find a wildlife recue place near enough for us to take it in.

Aiden went to VBS this week. Since the last one he went to he was 3 or 4 and next year he'll be too old, it was more for the experience than anything else. It was an amusingly old fashioned VBS with very few bells and whistles, Bible memory and Sunday school songs that Mom and Dad sang as kids, but Aiden enjoyed being occupied with other kids every morning - though we missed Monday because we simply forgot to go until it was over for the day!

We tried out a small group meeting of our church last night. We think it will be a good fit for us as a family, so we look forward to getting to know the group better. It was made all the more memorable with the excitement of yet more severe weather and tornado warnings and rescuing our bikes mid-meeting from the fierce wind and rain. Thankfully storm was over by the time we had to bike home.

We've also done yet more travel planning lately. So much travel for us in such a short time! Highly unusual for us. A airfare promo email triggered us to start thinking about our visit to Halifax in October and Christmas in Edmonton with Dad's family. And a call for volunteers for children's program workers from SAFE for the Family Education Conference in February triggered dreams of the girls taking a friend along as volunteers (Mom go as a consultant).


We tried to get the girls into youth camp, but we were a bit late in following up so it looks like its too full now. 

And now it's August!

Friday, July 14, 2023

1/2 July Bits and Pieces

 Jasmin started her university this week! So far she thinks it easy and fun. Of course, that likely has to do with her new required set up of large drawing tablet/monitor and the license to draw just about all the time...

Yesterday we had the excitement (!?) of a local tornado - as in it was mere streets away. Mom and Dad were out at a meeting most of the morning. It began raining as the meeting broke up so they ran into a restaurant to wait it out (they were on bikes). While sitting there, mom idly watched the storm clouds, observing them start to circle, watched awhile, then pointed it out to Dad. At that moment, we all got tornado watch alerts on our phones. So we watched a funnel cloud form! Fortunately this one didn't touch down. Once they got home, we all looked at local news and discovered at least three had formed and one had touched down. Thankfully the damage was fairly light as tornados go. Still, at least 5 families couldn't sleep in their home last night. Our kids started counting up their brushes/experiences with natural disasters and concluded they just needed a tsunami for a complete list.  No problems waiting for a long time for that to happen near where we are, for sure!

Mom and Dad went away for a weekend (so many trips away this summer!) and the kids stayed be themselves. They survived fine - likely mostly because Mom prepared meals for them and gave them a list of when to eat what, as they are notorious for simply forgetting or not getting hungry enough to feed themselves!

Sunday our foster dog managed to get our of her crate and eat a bag of chocolate while we were out at church potluck...and this after bloodying her paws on the bedroom door while we were at church... so Mom unexpectedly had to spend the evening at the animal hospital... to be told they wanted to keep the dog overnight. And then it took us until Wednesday to actually get her back because communication was lacking: the hospital transferred her back to the shelter without notifying us, the shelter didn't mark her chart as free to go home so we couldn't get her when we went on Mon after tracking down where she was, etc. And now she is on meds to hopefully control her separation anxiety so she doesn't go so crazy when we're gone. Hopefully that doesn't affect her adoptability as she is a great dog otherwise.

Friday, June 30, 2023

Halifax/Hatchet Lake Week!

We snuck in a week's stay in Halifax with family Wednesday to Wednesday! 

Since we flew and had no car to get around, it was a true vacation - we slept in, went swimming, kayaking, and walking/running; tried out hot tub evenings; played board games, laser tag, hide n seek with cousins; talked a lot; reacquainted ourselves with Uncle Arran's pancake suppers, Imma's lunch soup for sore throats, donairs and Scottsburn ice cream...

And took basically no pictures :)

Dad was sick with a cold just before we went so wore a mask on the plane. During our stay there Mom unfortunately woke up a little sicker each day until she lost her voice and was drinking copious amounts of tea in order to swallow without wincing - and travelled back in the mask instead of Dad. She got it much worse than Dad though, as she is still recovering.

It probably didn't help that our already red-eye return flight was delayed for over an hour so we got home about 3am and had to wake for a full next day :}

Despite those things, it was a wonderful, restful week. A little too short to come back fully rested and ready to work hard, but long enough that our car and house felt strange and not quite home to us all over again. 

And since we know that we will be heading back there again in October for longer, we don't feel too badly about not meeting the many friends whom we want to reconnect with while we were there.

All in all, a lovely love gift of the Father to us.



Saturday, June 17, 2023

In-Between Week

 Last week we were away. Next week we shall be away again. This week of in-between, we have been busy catching up and aiming to getting ahead...

Grace working hard to finish her university semester work a bit early so she can have a proper vacation next week.

Jasmin getting in lots of dog time with Willow and trying to clear the decks of waiting drawing commissions and writing tasks.

Aiden crunching with his programming course, and trying to get in as many afternoons of park soccer as he can.

Dad and Mom working at the back log of admin and household tasks as well as juggling current.

And a few end-of-school year things we've been invited to: a home school moms' evening together, Adventure club's ending BBQ, a youth group finale.

And then... a week with family, and enforced rest as we'll be there without a car :)

Monday, June 12, 2023

June!

 
At the end of year picnic for Aiden's co-op, we did the usual - as well as some more normal things like frisbee and soccer and picnic food!





And the tree was so inviting, even Mom couldn't resist the climb :)


We also got to stay for the reptile intro show that was so well done that everyone was drawn in from toddlers to grown ups - and we all learned a lot.
Mom and Dad then took the kids to our friends' house where they stayed for the week while Mom and Dad went for a Leaders' Reset retreat at Ellel Canada. Apart from the hard work of some inner healing, they got to enjoy canoeing, restarting running, and an overabundance of delicious food.
 

And, when we reconnected, we took everyone to a rock climbing gym for a combined birthday party. We unfortunately flustered the front desk by showing up with 7 climbers, but everyone had fun in the end, and we topped it off with a joint cake and party chips. Unfortunately, Aiden didn't get to enjoy it fully because he was in the beginning stages of a voice-stealing sore throat.



And this is June begun - but there is more to June yet as we'll be ending it with a week with family also! A lovely love-gift from our Father, who knows our needs and desires.

Sunday, May 28, 2023

And now, Willow




 Last weekend Charlotte, our first foster dog, got adopted. Her stay in our home was short! We're happy for her to be in her forever home, but it felt so odd not having a dog in the house even after such a brief time with her.

We ended up having to wait a week before getting another dog because arranging a visit when the shelter, Mom, Dad, and Jasmin were all free was a tad difficult. Jasmin does admit that she enjoyed the week of dog-free mornings to sleep in though!

Yesterday we finally got to meet our new foster, Willow. She's listed as a 11 month old whippet, but we think she's more likely a mix that has a lot of boxer in it. Other than no loose jowls and a small stature, she looks very boxer-ish. She is going to be a lot more work than Charlotte! She has a lot of energy, a puppy bladder, and has no qualms whatsoever about wiggling her way past our makeshift stair gate. She also loves getting up early it looks like.

Mom's actually even a bit happy about that as it will mean another incentive to get up and work her way back into morning runs... as long as Mom's heel will continue to heal with daily walk-runs.

Other things this week:

We got back to Heart's Desire river area! And the kids had to relive rock hopping - despite the fact that the river is full, undamned spring swollen, the water achingly cold, and the wind still rather nippy.

I guess that just provided the necessary upgrade in difficulty for it to still be a challenging activity :) The girls methodically used each other and a stick to get across more or less dry, but Aiden forged ahead and ended up very wet. Mom wanted very much to try, and made it out two or three rocks, but being the one with the phone and the knowledge of an untrustworthy foot, she didn't risk more than that. Nevertheless, it was a wonderful 2 hours! Once the kids recrossed back to Mom, we sat in the sun and ate still warm garlic buns and drank hot tea.

We had planned on doing more, but Aiden was too cold, even after switching jackets with Mom, so we made our way back home quite satisfied. it was a good early birthday day for Mom :)

Saturday, May 20, 2023

Snippets from the week

It's been a relatively quiet week as most of Aiden's activities that get us out and about had the week off.

We were disappointed we'd lost our raspberry canes in the back yard when  the deck had been replaced. But we discovered quite a few new sprouts coming up - excitement! Unfortunately most of them were between the patio stones so not really where we could leave them to grow. Mom tried to dig them up and replant them, but so far it looks like that didn't work, but we're still hoping they're not all dead. It does look like we'll get peas and a few strawberries if we can protect the crop from the backyard rabbits, birds, and other critters.

It's been cold enough that we've had the heat on a few days this week :( Aiden in particular is indignant that the beautiful warm weather has disappeared again so quickly.

Jasmin has settled into 2 long walks a day with Charlotte, and we seem to have chewing under control. We are seeing her true personality coming out more now. She is smart! And rather stubborn. But between eager Aiden and patient Jasmin, she is learning to obey well. And now Charlotte has an adoption appointment this weekend... will we be saying goodbye to her this soon?

We finally got back into a routine of Mom reading aloud at meal times and have finished off Burn Anyway, a fairly satisfying ending to a Christian fantasy series. There is enough world building and character development that I think we'd all love to see the hints of a wider story be fleshed out into more books :) Now we have to think of another read aloud to work on.

 Dad is finally free enough for promised lessons/guidance in learning computer programming for Aiden. They both are enjoying it!

Dad, Jasmin, and Aiden have spent a fair bit of time setting up Jasmin's new computer (for her upcoming illustration and concept art courses), and swapping out Aiden's computer for Jasmin's old one. So finally the faithful little box computer that was Grace's, then Jasmin's, then Aiden's can now have a rest as a backup. Aiden's happy to have a faster, non-overheating computer to work with, even if it is a coveted laptop but with a broken screen so it's still a desktop.

Dad took the time then to think of and implement a system whereby mom can listen to her large music collection on Grace's computer (the one with enough space) from her own computer. We're all happy to not have to listen to repetitive ads along with the music, and to be able to choose the songs we listen to without having to pay for the privilege.



Monday, May 15, 2023

Doggo, Tulips, Fish

Aiden got invited to a birthday party already! He and Dad went to a Father and Son fishing birthday party on Saturday. Dad enjoyed the networking with other dads, and Aiden quite liked learning how to cast his line for fishing and building the budding friendships with this new group of friends. It was a very different experience than his last fishing expedition though!


We've sorted out how Dad and doggo can live in the same house... counter intuitively the dog lives upstairs now, and we're doing an insane amount of cleaning... but it's working so Jasmin is relieved. The first few days we weren't sure, as Dad's asthma was bad, but we seem to have found a manageable solution. I'm sure Charlotte the dog would prefer full access to the house though! Unfortunately, Charlotte likes to chew... so Jasmin and Aiden are kept hopping and Charlotte has to be contained, trying to keep things safe from her as even baseboards, beds, and bath mats are not safe from her.

Today we went downtown to visit the Tulip Festival. We would have loved to take Charlotte with us, but she is not yet well enough trained, and that long in the car with Dad probably wouldn't be a good idea. 

The tulips were in fine form, and the lighting just great for their colors to seem like they had a light of their own - very beautiful!

We also had fun with the activities: 
learning some semaphore...     

...playing giant Jenga...          


 ...giant chess...
 












...climbing giant trees...

We also had a picnic supper, and planned to stay late enough to see the black light board walk and light show, but we'd tired ourselves out already and thought of not-so-patient Charlotte waiting for us at home. So we made our way back home just in time for dark :)


Tuesday, May 09, 2023

Since Forever

 Jasmin has wanted a dog... since forever. After many years of "not possible" and mini pets that sort of scratched the itch, this is the year!

Despite an unknown future, uncertain length of stay, Dad's continued allergies to pets, and still (!??!) being under age to volunteer at the shelter, we've found a possible way.

We waited patiently through the process of becoming a volunteer foster family for shelter dogs. And this week we've become host family to Charlotte, a very interesting husky/retriever mix. She is a pretty well mannered and mostly obedient, almost pure white 3yr old. We don't know how long we have her for, and we're still working on arranging things so Dad doesn't feel pushed out of his own house by a dog, but Jasmin - and Aiden - are more than delighted to have Charlotte!

(Sorry, no photos; the shelter has this policy of no social media for foster animals)

Thursday, April 20, 2023

Remembering the River

 Mom and the kids went to the river this morning just as we used to on a Thursday morning.

Aiden's "Oh, I remember playing here!" exclamations bringing a rush of pleasure and delight to all.

It's much less of an expedition now, longer legs make short work of the distances. Still, we get home with a sigh for sore feet - especially mom who's still wrestling with flaring plantar fascitis.

Contentment with warm sun and spring winds, budding greens and wide open spaces. So different than the beach or jungle yet also still familiar!

No matter where we are, we are bird watching and critter hunting, naming what we remember of plants and trees. Thankful for the abundance so close to home - and spring bare trees to see the birds easily!

Cardinals, red winged black birds, song sparrows, juncos, cormorants, Canada geese, Mallard ducks, muskrats, morning dove, sea gulls... Coltsfoot, sumac, cedar, pines, crocuses, pussy willow, bullrushes, wild rose... And lots of black flies🙃

Jasmin dreaming of walking her hoped for dog, Aiden longing to return without the need for coat and shoes to explore the mud and the great climbing trees, Grace exclaiming how differently things are sized now and eager to introduce Aiden to all the things they did when she was 10.

A very good morning in what has been a pretty tough week. Even better that there is trail left still unexplored for another day.... And then we can take a phone for photos 😁


Thursday, April 13, 2023

A few April Thoughts so far

Flowers in the house are a wonderful thing! Imma left us with daffodils and tulips for Easter, and they give us many a smile

Easter celebrations were very different for us this year - we didn't get to any of our usual traditions, but we attended one very joyful Easter Sunday service, watched another from our Penang church, and hosted NiNi and YeaYea for supper. In-between, we sang together as a family lots of easter songs and went for a quick walk.

We've sent off NiNi and YeaYea to their new life in Edmonton today. We're very thankful for the overlap of our time in Ottawa together, though it feels like it was too short, of course!

Jasmin finished her high school course work and began the process of college choosing an applying. It was a great surprise to us that in very short order, she received confirmation of acceptance into her school of choice - CG Spectrum! We also began the process of becoming a dog foster family. This one is proving to be a lot slower of a process though.

Even after only such a short winter experience, we have been just as infected by the spring/summer weather as anyone else this week: 

  • Sun soaking in our back yard
  • Aiden playing barefoot in the park in shorts and t-shirt
  • Switching out winter weather gear for spring/summer things
  • Trying out our newly acquired bikes 
  • Seeking out the green shoots poking out in the garden, wondering what they are. (and also sad to discover our raspberries and lilac didn't survive for our return)

Saturday, March 25, 2023

One Month

We passed the one month in Canada and three weeks in our own home mark this week...

  • We've all been sick now - and Grace is still without a voice and Dad is still coughing Mom awake each night
  • Despite that, we've managed to host or be hosted 6 (!) times over the month, connecting with old and new friends
  • Yeay! Aiden is signed up for and will start (a week late) the spring homeschool co-op term on Monday. This is the new generation of the co-op Grace and Jasmin attended.
  • He also joined the homeschooler's class running concurrently with the women's Bible study mom is going to, and hopefully there is some overlap of population and new friendships can grow.
  • We've enjoyed the library access, having visited 4 different libraries so far - getting plenty of reading material for sick days, and a keyboard for Grace to do her courses.
We've also felt some of the first pangs of homesickness for our "other home", missing people, the simplicity of constant warm weather, familiarity of well-worn life routines, and other tidbits of our life there. In Aiden's words "When will this feel like home?" We know it takes awhile -  certainly much longer than a month!

Saturday, March 18, 2023

And then...

 And then...

- it's March Break and we miss a week of youth, etc. Hopefully not too much momentum is lost.

- Aiden got sick with another Canadian winter bug so we missed a play date opportunity

- Grace got her G1/beginner's! Not that she's eager to start driving, but for ID purposes currently. When Jasmin turns 16 in June, they'll do driver's education together.

-  Jasmin joined her longtime friend for a birthday day trip to Park Omega. They had a fantastic time observing wolves, foxes, deer, caribou, etc.

- Mom's been troubled by a sore foot (probably plantar fascitis) that has been painful on again off again since November. Hopefully now we're settled she can get it seen to. We miss the DNS physio on the other side of the world that was treating it effectively...

- Dad has continued to plow through the administration grunt work of setting up life here and reconnecting with people.

- Aiden finished his math and Bible courses for the year. Amazing work considering what long time of monumental transition we've just come through!

- Imma made plans to come for a short visit for Aiden's baptism; Imma and Mom are very happy not to have to wait until June for proper hugs☺️

Saturday, March 11, 2023

Finally Home!

 In the last week we've...

- finally moved into our own home

- and unpacked, rearranged, sorted stuff, and made the house livable

- played in the snow multiple times (at least the kids have!)

- went skating and sledding (again, the kids)


- ventured downtown to restore our Ontario health insurance

- enjoyed the delight of random memories coming back as we re-explore our house and neighbourhood

- took at least three zoom meetings

- reveled in the availability of creamed honey, cheap-ish Nutella, tortilla chips

- gotten reacquainted with Canadian grocery shopping

- begun the discovery process of what a good household budget looks like and the changes we will need to make

- reconnected with various church groups (youth, etc.)

- started to re-engage with things put on hold by our move: PhD, SAFE consulting, etc.

- researched and got a working phone, internet, etc.

- met new and old friends

- begun the research and planning for Jasmin to foster a dog

- begun looking into driver's ed for the girls

- finished setting up? Not quite, but nicely close🙂

Thursday, February 23, 2023

In between home and home day 14 - 15

 Day 14 we lived twice... 

...we crossed the International Date Line in flying home. It was a smooth journey home, with only standing in line over and over again through various airports being the worst thing that happened to us.

We arrived in Ottawa 

    to be met by Jasmin's long-time friend who has been texting with Jasmin daily the full 5 years we were in Asia! How special is that?!

    to wait more for our luggage - but it all arrived without any damage or adventures.

    to be met with grandparents bringing a suitcase of winter coats and mitts for this stupendously tired and cold family.

    to gather around the table to eat a long remembered YeaYea's chicken ala king supper

        enjoy hot showers

            and fall into bed.

Day 15 Home, yet not home yet

Because of our long flight home starting at 2am and the resulting messed up sleep schedule, jetlag didn't stand a chance. We all slept pretty well, and more or less made it through the day... 

    although Dad had a morning nap 

                    not much school got done (really some did, how amazing is that!?)

                   and at the end of it Aiden fell asleep on a friends' couch and our words were getting nicely mixed up!

Mom and Aiden went out in the afternoon with NiNi and got Mom a driver's license, Aiden some winter boots, and Jasmin some snow pants. This was all that was needed (except one more pair of boots) after Mom spent the morning searching through our stored goods - somehow she'd managed to store enough winter clothing to keep us all warm, even though she'd only guessed at Aiden's 10 year old size.

And in a rather last minute arrangement, we went for supper at some long-time friends' house - like we couldn't stand being so close and not get together right away 😄It was a fantastic way to end the day. Just like before we left, the kids were loud in their eager fun together, and the parents had tons to say to each other!

Monday, February 20, 2023

In between home and home day 13

Today  ...

A final Asian hotel breakfast of rice, noodles, and soup 

A final attempt to get ahead with school and university work sharing computers in our hotel rooms

A final lunch (well, just snacks) from 7-11 and roasted eggs off the street

A final use of BAHT cash

A final repacking of our bags

A final supper with our Bangkok friends 

A final wait for dad talking with someone, listening to the mix of familiar Asian languages

And later, A final drive through Bangkok traffic to the airport

A first and hopefully final reunion with a lost (left behind) bag

And much later (2 am), a final flight out of our so familiar and much loved Asia, headed to our no longer so familiar home in Canada.







Sunday, February 19, 2023

In between home and home day 12

 Today

We got up late - so nice to have that choice!

We are well despite skipping lunch altogether.

Grace and Mom sang worship songs for an hour for morning church.

Mom and the kids braved the "cold" to go swimming - laps of the small pool in each stroke.

We got in some read aloud.

Mom worked on a presentation about second language acquisition for our friends with an English school.

We attempted to go to evening church at the church we used to attend when we lived here, but after trying two different locations we discovered it doesn't have an evening service any more.

Mom and dad have the presentation to our friend and two of his staff (and Grace who was interested). We started at 8pm and finished after 11 - So many questions and discussions!

Saturday, February 18, 2023

In between home and home day 11

 Today we lost and found...

We flew back to Bangkok this morning, discovering on the way that Grace accidentally left her hand bag at the gate in Chiang Mai😬

With prayer, we approached our airline for lost bags, thinking maybe we could have a Chiang Mai friend pick it up for us. We learned that if the bag was found, our airline would fly it to Bangkok for us to pick it up!

All the way to the hotel we prayed it would be found. And it was! So now we just have to coordinate pick up on Monday night when we are back at the airport to fly to Canada...

We also were reunited with the rest of our suitcases, so now Mom has the job of yet again repacking - for Canada this time!

The rest of the day we spent recuperating in the hotel room: debriefing, planning, snoozing, catching up on work set aside for the last week.

2 more days before the big journey...

Friday, February 17, 2023

In between home and home day 10

 Today 

We all realized it's the last day and there was a flurry of side meetings to get in all the necessary exchanges before people started leaving.

There was a lot of prayer and praise together as we reflected on the week past and the weeks ahead.

Jasmin's allergies cleared up after the rain last night that cleared the air.

Mom bounced from meeting to meeting while dad fielded the logistics of our check out and early morning flight back to Bangkok tomorrow.

Now we can start truly thinking about landing in Canada...

Thursday, February 16, 2023

In between home and home day 9

 Today:

More meetings... And the beginning of a new shawl on Mom's crochet hook

Dad's presentation got unusually interrupted: two hotel workers brought in a large computer monitor and started setting it up while he was speaking to the group even to the point of unplugging his computer that he was presenting from!

More school... that yet again got interrupted as:

The kids got locked out of Mom and Dad's room so Aiden didn't have computer access for a bit, and,

Dad met with one of the counseling centers here this afternoon.

Aiden got to jump in the freezing pool with Mom for a little bit after she was done with meetings. And then, there were boys on the small yard playing soccer so Aiden joined for an hour before dark.